Waiting

So I know I skipped some details, but for now, this blog is for me, so I am just going to speak from where I'm currently at.

I had three embryos transferred on Monday, and now I am waiting to see if the last round of IVF worked. I try to focus on being PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise), but honestly, my body, my heart, and my soul is just tired. 

I suppose the good thing about being truly tired is that I'm too tired to feel frustrated - at least right now. 

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